Ex boyfriend advice? really confused.. help?

As he said, he doesn't want to rush. Think about it. Yes he is a guy, are all guys the same? No. Have you ever thought that just maybe he doesn't want to screw things up like maybe his past relationships? Maybe he knows that rushing could lead him to making mistakes and loosing you. Let him have his time, Don't rush things. It could be really great if you two were together in a few months, both in love, right? Just wait.